"If You Suspect Your Man Might Be Lying To You or Cheating On
You - But You Just Can't
Prove It Yet..."
Then Here's How To Find Out For Sure - In As Little As 12 Hours
We're relationship coaches Susie
and Otto Collins and if you've got that sick feeling in the pit of your
stomach that your man may be lying or even cheating on you, but you
aren't sure--then we want to help you get to the truth.
In order to best help you figure out whether he's lying and cheating on
you, we'd like to ask you a few simple questions about you and your
Please answer these questions as
openly and honestly as possible.
Here are the questions...
Do you have a
gut feeling that your man could be lying to you or even
cheating on you?
Do you wonder what he's doing
and who he's
really spending his time with when he's not with you?
suspicious of another woman who your man claims to be "just friends"
Is your man
overly-secretive or overly-protective of his privacy when he's on
the phone, texting or on the internet and it's upsetting to you?
Are you jealous
when he comments about other women he finds attractive?
Are there mysterious gaps in
time that can't be easily explained when you ask him about what he
was doing or where he was?
Have you noticed your man being
late or changing his plans at the last minute and his excuses just
don't "feel right" for someone who claims they really want to be
Have you actually caught him
lying to you or cheating on you and he promised he'd change but
you're feeling like he may be up to his old tricks all over again?
Are you beginning to doubt
yourself because every time you accuse him of lying, he tells you
that you're making it all up, he's not doing anything wrong and that
If you said "YES" to any of the
questions we just asked you, we know that there aren't many things
you'll have to deal with in your life that are worse than thinking or
feeling like you are being lied to and possibly betrayed-- and not know
If you're living with these kinds
of questions, what you want right now is honesty and to not have to be
worried about what he's up to when he's not with you.
If you want the lies and uncertainty to end, then continue reading
because we're going to help you get to the truth...
How We Became Experts at Spotting Liars, Cheaters and Affair-Repeaters
and How You Can Use Our Shortcuts To Find Out If a Man Is Lying or
Cheating On You
As of the time we're writing this
letter to you, we're in the thirteenth year of a truly wonderful
relationship and marriage that has total trust, honesty, deep connection
and incredible love and passion--but the truth is, we've seen our share
of lying, cheating, affairs and infidelity.
Not only have we seen lying, cheating and infidelity in our own lives
(prior to getting together) but we've seen it firsthand in the lives of
close friends and family. In fact Susie's suspicions that her ex-husband
had been cheating (and ending up choosing the other woman) was the final
straw that ended their 30 year marriage.
In our professional lives, as relationship coaches, we've worked with
hundreds of clients who were dealing with lying partners or
cheating spouses. We helped them get to the truth and figure out what
their next steps should be in their relationships.
As we look back on it, we didn't
set out to be experts on lying, cheating and truth-telling in
relationships but that's what we became because these were the kinds of
issues that our clients were dealing with.
Believe us when we say that these aren't the kinds of subjects that
you're taught about in relationship coach training. We had to find
other ways to become experts on lying and cheating-- so we started
researching the best ways to spot a liar and find out whether someone is
cheating or not.
You see, we've spent many thousands of
dollars and hundreds of hours learning about relationships and
researching how to spot liars and cheaters so that we could help people
like you separate out fact from fiction about
whether your man is lying or cheating.
The good news is there is hope and it's not your fault that you don't
have all the answers about your relationship and your man right now.
The other bit of good news we have for you is that you don't have to
guess about what to do next to find the truth.
You don't have to spend any more time wondering about him and whether
he's lying or cheating on you.
With our help, getting to the truth will be much easier than you ever
You can end your frustration now by using our best tricks and ideas (the
ones that took us thousands of hours to discover) to find out if he's
being true to you.
Do You Know The 3 Worst
Mistakes You Could Ever Make If You Suspect Your Man
Is Lying or Cheating On You?
Mistake # 3
Chances are you're doing something right now--(without even knowing
it)--that is the biggest mistake you could ever make if you're in a
relationship with someone you think is lying or cheating on you.
Because you're hurt, upset, angry, feel disconnected from him and are
desperately wanting the truth...
It's normal and natural that you do this and use it as a coping strategy
for dealing with a man who you think is hiding something, withholding
the truth and possibly telling you lies or cheating on you right before
your very eyes.
But here's the problem if you're
If you're doing this and he IS lying and cheating on you, then it will
make getting to the truth much more difficult (if not impossible) than
if you're not doing it.
If you're doing this and he's NOT lying to you or cheating, then you may
be doing something that is causing damage to your relationship or
marriage that may not be fixable.
So, what is this BIG mistake we're talking about?
It's harassing him, badgering him, arguing with him, fighting and
yelling with him to try to get him to own up to the "truth," get him to
admit his cheating ways, prove to him how bad he's been, how wrong he is
and get him to come crawling back to you on his hands and knees begging
for forgiveness for how much he's hurt you.
Of course we're exaggerating a little bit for effect here to help you
get our point--but here's what we've found...
After working with hundreds of couples in our Relationship Breakthrough
coaching practice, we can absolutely tell you that a huge mistake is to
be constantly harassing your partner and making all kinds of accusations
about what you think he's doing or how wrong you think he's done you--
without any proof of your accusations.
If you're like most women we coach, you're probably saying to yourself
right now that this "Isn't you," "You're not doing this" or one of our
favorites... "He deserves everything he gets."
As coaches who have seen this exact
situation played out many times, we can tell you that even if you THINK
you're not treating him in this way, you probably are and don't realize
No matter whether you end up finding out he truly is lying to you and
cheating on you
or he's totally innocent...
Now is NOT the time to be yelling
at him, arguing with him or accusing him of anything UNTIL you have all
And here's why...
If you're throwing out accusations about what you think he's doing but
can't yet prove it, he's going to do the equivalent of what a wild
animal would do when cornered--come out fighting.
In a situation like this, we can guarantee you that he will dig in his
heels, deny everything and most likely turn it around on you and say
that you're the one in the relationship with the problem, tell you he's
done nothing wrong and that you're the one who is "crazy."
You may have already heard those
words come out of his mouth.
The problem that this creates is
that these constant accusations make him hyper-aware, on-guard and
super-sensitive and will make proving that he's lying or cheating that
much more difficult.
It will make rebuilding trust more
difficult and the relationship harder to repair if you decide to stay
If he's truly innocent and your
investigation bears out that he is NOT lying or cheating and you have
been yelling, arguing and accusing him of cheating--then all these
accusations you're making could be doing irreparable damage to the
relationship that you'll be sorry about later.
The fact is, there is a right way and a wrong way to talk to a man you
think is lying to you or cheating on you and the worst mistake you can
make in this situation is to accuse him of anything until you have the
Mistake # 2
Think about it...
You would NEVER intentionally lock yourself in a big freezer and stay
there until you were too frozen to move or get out. You'd DIE!
Amazingly enough, that's what many
women metaphorically do in their relationships when they suspect that
their man may be lying to them or cheating on them--they get stuck,
FREEZE, their fears control them and prevent them from moving forward
toward finding the truth.
If you are feeling frozen in fear
and unable to take a step forward, we know that it certainly isn't your
fault. In fact, it's normal for you to feel this way.
But even though it's normal to feel
frozen and unable to move forward toward finding out the truth, it is a
mistake to stay in that place of fear and uncertainty.
It's a mistake because staying in
this frozen place can ruin your health, can affect your job performance
and can certainly impact your kids and other family members--as well as
You may have already seen the
effects of your staying frozen in fear but you don't know what to do or
where to turn to get to the truth.
That's where we can help...
Mistake # 1
The #1 mistake women make when they
think their man is lying to them or cheating on them--but they can't
prove it yet--is trying to figure it all out without any help.
This is an incredibly stressful and
painful time and if you're trying to figure this out by yourself, you're
most likely going to just go around in circles and not get to the truth.
When you're talking about something
as important as finding out whether your man is lying to you or cheating
on you, you can't afford to make a mistake.
There's too much on the line.
It's too important.
The future of your relationship or
marriage and what you should do next in this relationship will be
revealed when you are able to get to the truth.
That's why you can't afford to rely
on your thoughts or intuition alone to help you come up with the 100%
inarguable and undeniable truth about whether your man is lying or
At a time like this, you need a
Because of your suspicions, you're
probably very emotional, your mind is racing, jumbled and chaotic and
you might be blinded by jealousy. All this makes it almost impossible to
step back and to truly be objective to get THE TRUTH.
Don't try to figure this out by
The stakes are just too high.
Let us help you find that objective
place within yourself where you can get to the truth.
Much Easier Than You Might Think To Get The Truth About Whether He's
Lying or Cheating On You...
In order to find out if your man is lying or cheating on you, there are
really only two things you need and those things are:
1. A Plan
2. Support in carrying out that
And the good news is we're going to
give you both.
In fact, we're going to help you take the guesswork out of finding out
whether he's lying or cheating on you.
We've taken everything we know about how to tell if a man is lying and
cheating and put it in a one-of-a-kind program, written specifically for
women, that gives you everything you need to know to finally be able to
get to the truth once and for all.
We call this program,
Where There's Smoke
How To Tell
If Your Man's
a Cheating Liar...
What Is "Where There's Smoke There's
Fire" and How Can It Help You Find Out If your Man Is Lying or Cheating?
This is a simple, step-by-step program where we take you by the hand and
show you steps to tell if your man is lying or cheating on you.
This is a complete package of information that has been carefully chosen
to give you the information and help you're going to need to start
turning trust around and rebuilding your relationship right away.
The "Where There's Smoke There's
Fire" program includes two downloadable books, two audio recordings and
two special reports, all tightly focused on helping you get to the truth
about your man and your relationship.
What's great about this program is
that it is available in an instantly downloadable format. This means you
get to download everything that comes with the program to your computer.
Because you're downloading
everything, this also means you don't have to spend valuable time
waiting on a package to come in the mail and it also means NO expensive
Because you aren't getting anything
in the mail, you also don't have to worry about whether your man (or
anyone else) finds out you're checking up on them.
Everything is 100%
Best of all, you can start learning these incredible secrets and
strategies for being able to tell if your man is lying or cheating
immediately after you let us know you want the program.
"Where There's Smoke There's Fire:
How To Tell If Your Man's a Cheating Liar"
...is an instantly downloadable program that will give you the steps you need to get to the truth quickly and easily...
Here's what's included in the program...
"Where There's Smoke There's
Fire" downloadable guidebook
The "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" guidebook takes you by
the hand and shows you in step-by-step format how to tell if
he's lying to you or cheating on you
"How To Spot A Liar" audios
getting the digital audio recordings of a special one-time only
(2-Hour) online seminar that we (Susie and Otto) did on how to
tell if a man is lying or cheating on you. This info is bold and
"How To Spot A Liar"
online seminar transcript
You're getting the written transcript of the audio recordings of
the "How To Spot A Liar" online seminar mentioned above.
This means, you
can have the choice of either listening to the audios or reading
the transcript to make sure you don't miss any important points.
"Inside The Cheating Man's Mind" downloadable ebook
In this ebook, we take you inside the cheating man's mind and
give you nearly 100 stories from men who are either cheating now
or have cheated at some point in the past.
In these stories, you'll hear from men in their own words--as
they tell you exactly what they did behind their woman's back,
how they did it and most importantly, how they got away with it.
Some of these real-life stories from cheating men are so real,
raw, honest and provocative that they even surprised us.
The idea behind this book is simple...
If you know what other men are doing, you'll know what your
man might be doing and what to look for in order to catch him
when he's lying or cheating.
Here's A Partial List Of Everything You're Going To Learn When You Get
Your Copy of "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" ...
Why It's NEVER a good idea to
accuse your man of lying or cheating until you know THIS
How to become like a human lie
detector with him, his words and behavior (so you know whether he's
lying or cheating or not)
How and when to trust your
intuition about his lying and whether it's happening
The 10 most important things to
look for that could mean he is lying, cheating or worse
How to know when or if you need
to confront your man or if your fears are unfounded
Why you can't trust your
emotions to tell you whether he or she is LYING or not and what to
do to find out the truth instead
5 "healthy" ways to deal with
anger and other emotions that ensure that your relationship
challenges don't invade the other parts of your life in destructive
Specific words and phrases to
use with your partner to help you uncover whether he's lying to you
How to stop your out-of-control
jealous thoughts without letting him off the hook
Why having a calmer mind can
actually help you catch him in his lies, even if he denies it
A step-by-step system for
knowing if your man's a liar and a cheat so you can know for certain
if you can trust him or not
How to gather the evidence to
confront him with confidence and how to know when the right time is
to present him with the evidence
How to use any suspicious
emails you find to your advantage
Dozens of real life stories and
examples from real people who caught their partners cheating
red-handed and how they did it
The most important thing you
should be asking yourself about your relationship as you go through
this process of discovery and inquiry about what he's doing behind
The differences between how and
why men and women lie and how knowing this information can help you
accelerate the process of finding out once and for all whether he's
lying to you or cheating on you
The biggest single reason why
women put up with lies and how you can make the decision to stop it
if you're knowingly putting up with lies or cheating
The 3 most important words you
should be using to guide you in finding the truth about whether he's
lying to you or cheating on you
The single best way to keep
track of what you find out and where to keep the info so no one else
How to recognize the difference
between snooping as a way to gather evidence and it being an
addiction that needs to be dealt with
The pros and cons of hiring a
private investigator and how to know whether you should hire one to
find the truth in your situation
The most important thing you'll
have to decide if you find out that your man is indeed lying to you
or cheating on you
What to do with all the fears
that come up when you think about your life if what you suspect
really is true
How to confront your husband if
he has been lying to you about an affair that has been going on for
What to do about the "other
woman" if you do find out that there is one
The #1 thing you should do if
there is a repeating pattern of lying and cheating
The best way to deal with your
anger that comes up when you think he's being unfaithful to you
5 keys to getting control of
emotions that are getting the best of you
How to recognize the
"red-flags" in your relationship and which ones to really worry
about that can do the most damage if allowed to go unchecked
Why you can't rely on
"shifty-eyes" as a way to tell if he's lying to you or cheating and
another thing you watch out for instead that's a much more accurate
indicator of infidelity, lying or cheating
Subtle voice cues any woman can
recognize (if you know what to listen for) that almost always give
it away when he's lying to you
And much more...
To Tell If This Program Is For You...
If you're sick and tired of all the games you think your man is playing
and you want to find out the truth about whether he's lying or cheating
on you--then this program is for you.
If you're ready to finally say "YES" to you instead of allowing yourself
to be controlled and manipulated by fear, doubt and uncertainty then
this program is definitely for you.
If you want help finding out if he's lying or cheating but want complete
confidentially so that NO ONE will ever know what you're up to--then
this program is for you because we respect your privacy and will NEVER
reveal anything about you to anyone for any reason without your
If you don't want to be "blind-sided" by the news of cheating, an affair
or infidelity that you suspect may be going on--then this program is
without a doubt for you.
If you want to make sure you're not embarrassed and humiliated because
friends, family, co-workers and other people find out about his
shenanigans before you do, then this program is one you must go through
as quickly as possible.
If you want to get the answers you seek about him and your relationship
quickly--then this program is something you're going to want to pick up
right away... (this isn't typical of everyone we work with but--we've
had coaching clients and seminar attendees get the incriminating
evidence they needed to prove their man's indiscretions within hours of
working with us or applying what we've shared in a session or seminar)
If you're a woman who wants a
step-by-step plan for finding the truth and expert advice about how to
move forward no matter what you find out, then this program will help
you separate fact from fiction in no time flat.
On the other hand, if you aren't
willing to face your fears and be willing to take a look at what your
man truly is or isn't doing...
you are committed to staying in a lousy relationship where you're not
honored, loved and treated with the respect you deserve then you should
probably pass on this program, not bother with downloading it and go
back to your life as is.
program is for women who are willing to open themselves to the truth and
want help from a trusted and well-respected resource to find out whether
their man is lying or cheating on them.
Makes This Program Different
From Anything Else?
While it's absolutely true that
much of what we share will also apply to men as well, the bulk of what
we share is unique to the challenges that a woman faces when trying to
figure out if her man is lying or cheating.
There are plenty of books or courses available for people who want to
learn about cheating or infidelity but we created this program
exclusively for Women who want to find out if a man is lying or
cheating on them.
This is important because let's
Women and men ARE different.
And we're not just talking about
the obvious anatomical differences between them either.
Men and women are different in so many other ways as well. And these
differences are never more evident than how men and women are in
One example that's proven by
research is how men and women handle the knowledge that they are being
As a generalization, although there
certainly are exceptions, men tend to move on quicker if they've been
cheated on and women tend to give their men more chances and want to
stay in the relationship, no matter what. In other words, in some cases,
women hang on to a relationship way too long.
Our course helps you, as a woman,
know if he deserves any more chances and then create the right plan for
you to move forward--no matter what you find out.
When you're talking about an issue that's as important as finding out
whether a man is lying or cheating on you, you don't want a
"cookie-cutter" approach that is for everyone.
You want guidance that isn't a
You want help that's geared specifically for you as a woman and the
issues and challenges you face as a woman in today's world.
Not only is this exclusively for
women but it's also a...
Step-By-Step Guide ...
This isn't just a book or an audio
where we throw out a bunch of tips for catching a cheating spouse or
lover and call it a book or course.
This is a complete step-by-step guide where we take you by the hand and
lead you through the entire process of finding out the truth.
We help you with an action plan,
right down to the "right words to say" for moving forward with your man
and the information you find out about him and what he's truly up to.
We don't just stop there...
We also tell you the best ways to
confront your man and tell him what you find out about what he's been up
When you finally come clean and
tell him everything you've found out about him, there's a right way and
a wrong way to share this information with him.
We tell you the right way to talk
to him about what you've found out.
Then we give you our action plan
This is where we share with how to know what your next move should be
after you know the facts. As you can now see, this is a complete
This program gives you everything you need to get to the truth. Nothing
is held back.
Wrap This Up...
If you've read this far then we know you're a woman who
wants more from her relationship than you have right now.
We know that you're no longer willing to live with the doubt, fears,
uncertainty, lies and sneaky behavior any longer.
We know that you're ready to get the truth.
We know that you are ready for honesty and to know once
and for all whether a man is lying or cheating on you.
We've put together the most complete program we could ever hope to
This program gives you everything you need to know to be able to find
out-- Is he lying or cheating on you or is he innocent?
Don't wait another minute.
We're here every step of the way to help you through
If you've had it with all the doubt, fear and uncertainty, take that
first step right now.
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