If You Suspect Your Man Might Be Lying To You or Cheating On You - But You Just Can't Prove It Yet...
Then Here's How To Find Out For Sure...
If you've got that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach that your man may be lying or even cheating on you, but you aren't sure--then we want to help you get to the truth.
In order to best help you figure out whether he's lying and cheating on you, we'd like to ask you a few simple questions about you and your relationship.
Please answer these questions as openly and honestly as possible...
Do you have a gut feeling that your man could be lying to you or even cheating on you?
Do you wonder what he's doing and who he's really spending his time with when he's not with you?
Are you suspicious of another woman who your man claims to be "just friends" with?
Is your man overly-secretive or overly-protective of his privacy when he's on the phone, texting or on the internet and it's upsetting to you?
Are you jealous when he comments about other women he finds attractive?
Are there mysterious gaps in time that can't be easily explained when you ask him about what he was doing or where he was?
Have you noticed your man being late or changing his plans at the last minute and his excuses just don't "feel right" for someone who claims they really want to be with you?
Have you actually caught him lying to you or cheating on you and he promised he'd change but you're feeling like he may be up to his old tricks all over again?
Are you beginning to doubt yourself because every time you accuse him of lying, he tells you that you're making it all up, he's not doing anything wrong and that you're "crazy"?
Are your feelings about what you suspect is going on causing you to be afraid that he might leave you for another woman and you'll end up humiliated, unloved and alone?
If you said "YES" to any of the questions we just asked you, we know that there aren't many things you'll have to deal with in your life that are worse than thinking or feeling like you are being lied to and possibly betrayed-- and not know for sure.
If you're living with these kinds of questions, what you want right now is honesty and to not have to be worried about what he's up to when he's not with you.
If you want the lies and uncertainty to end, then continue reading because we're going to help you get to the truth...
How We Became Experts at Spotting Liars, Cheaters and Affair-Repeaters and How You Can Use Our Shortcuts To Find Out If a Man Is Lying or Cheating On You
We're Susie and Otto Collins and as of the time we're writing this, we're in the 20th year of a truly wonderful relationship and marriage that has total trust, honesty, deep connection and incredible love and passion...
But the truth is, we've seen our share of lying, cheating, affairs and infidelity.
Not only have we seen lying, cheating and infidelity in our own lives (prior to getting together), but we've seen it firsthand in the lives of close friends and family.
In fact Susie's suspicions that her ex-husband had been cheating (and ending up choosing the other woman) was the final straw that ended their 30-year marriage.
In our professional lives as relationship coaches, we've worked with hundreds of clients who were dealing with lying partners or cheating spouses.
We helped them get to the truth and figure out what their next steps to take in their relationships.
As we look back on it, we didn't set out to be experts on lying, cheating and truth-telling in relationships but that's what we became because these were the kinds of issues that our clients were dealing with.
Believe us when we say that these aren't the kinds of subjects that you're taught about in relationship coach training.
We had to find other ways to become experts on lying and cheating...
So we started researching the best ways to spot a liar and find out whether someone is cheating or not.
We've learned how to help people like you separate out fact from fiction about whether your man is lying or cheating.
The good news is there is hope and it's not your fault that you don't have all the answers about your relationship and your man right now.
The other bit of good news we have for you is that you don't have to guess about what to do next to find the truth.
You don't have to spend any more time wondering about him and whether he's lying or cheating on you.
With our help, getting to the truth will be much easier than you ever thought possible.
You can end your frustration now by using our best ideas to find out if he's being true to you.
Do You Know The 3 Worst Mistakes You Could Ever Make If You Suspect Your Man Is Lying or Cheating On You?
Chances are you're doing something right now--(without even knowing it)--that is the biggest mistake you could ever make if you're in a relationship with someone you think is lying or cheating on you.
Because you're hurt, upset, angry, feel disconnected from him and are desperately wanting the truth...
It's normal and natural that you do this and use it as a coping strategy for dealing with a man who you think is hiding something, withholding the truth and possibly telling you lies or cheating on you right before your very eyes.
But here's the problem if you're doing this...
If you're doing this and he IS lying and cheating on you, then it will make getting to the truth much more difficult (if not impossible) than if you're not doing it.
If you're doing this and he's NOT lying to you or cheating, then you may be doing something that is causing damage to your relationship or marriage that may not be fixable.
So, what is this BIG mistake we're talking about?
It's harassing him, badgering him, arguing with him, fighting and yelling with him to try to get him to own up to the "truth," get him to admit his cheating ways, prove to him how bad he's been, how wrong he is and get him to come crawling back to you on his hands and knees begging for forgiveness for how much he's hurt you.
Of course we're exaggerating a little bit for effect here to help you get our point--but here's what we've found...
After working with hundreds of couples in our Relationship Breakthrough coaching practice, we can absolutely tell you that a huge mistake is to be constantly harassing your partner and making all kinds of accusations about what you think he's doing or how wrong you think he's done you-- without any proof of your accusations.
If you're like most women we coach, you're probably saying to yourself right now that this "Isn't you," "You're not doing this" or one of our favorites... "He deserves everything he gets."
As coaches who have seen this exact situation played out many times, we can tell you that even if you THINK you're not treating him in this way, you probably are and don't realize it.
No matter whether you end up finding out he truly is lying to you and cheating on you
or he's totally innocent...
Now is NOT the time to be yelling at him, arguing with him or accusing him of anything UNTIL you have all the facts.
And here's why...
If you're throwing out accusations about what you think he's doing but can't yet prove it, he's going to do the equivalent of what a wild animal would do when cornered--come out fighting.
In a situation like this, we can guarantee you that he will dig in his heels, deny everything and most likely turn it around on you and say that you're the one in the relationship with the problem, tell you he's done nothing wrong and that you're the one who is "crazy."
You may have already heard those words come out of his mouth.
The problem that this creates is that these constant accusations make him hyper-aware, on-guard and super-sensitive and will make proving that he's lying or cheating that much more difficult.
It will make rebuilding trust more difficult and the relationship harder to repair if you decide to stay together.
If he's truly innocent and your investigation bears out that he is NOT lying or cheating and you have been yelling, arguing and accusing him of cheating--then all these accusations you're making could be doing irreparable damage to the relationship that you'll be sorry about later.
The fact is, there is a right way and a wrong way to talk to a man you think is lying to you or cheating on you and the worst mistake you can make in this situation is to accuse him of anything until you have the facts.
Think about it...
You would NEVER intentionally lock yourself in a big freezer and stay there until you were too frozen to move or get out. You'd DIE!
Amazingly enough, that's what many women metaphorically do in their relationships when they suspect that their man may be lying to them or cheating on them--they get stuck, FREEZE, their fears control them and prevent them from moving forward toward finding the truth.
If you are feeling frozen in fear and unable to take a step forward, we know that it certainly isn't your fault. In fact, it's normal for you to feel this way.
But even though it's normal to feel frozen and unable to move forward toward finding out the truth, it is a mistake to stay in that place of fear and uncertainty.
It's a mistake because staying in this frozen place can ruin your health, can affect your job performance and can certainly impact your kids and other family members--as well as your relationship.
You may have already seen the effects of your staying frozen in fear but you don't know what to do or where to turn to get to the truth.
That's where we can help...
The #1 mistake women make when they think their man is lying to them or cheating on them--but they can't prove it yet--is trying to figure it all out without any help.
This is an incredibly stressful and painful time and if you're trying to figure this out by yourself, you're most likely going to just go around in circles and not get to the truth.
When you're talking about something as important as finding out whether your man is lying to you or cheating on you, you can't afford to make a mistake.
There's too much on the line.
It's too important.
The future of your relationship or marriage and what you should do next in this relationship will be revealed when you are able to get to the truth.
That's why you can't afford to rely on your thoughts or intuition alone to help you come up with the 100% inarguable and undeniable truth about whether your man is lying or cheating.
At a time like this, you need a clear mind.
Because of your suspicions, you're probably very emotional, your mind is racing, jumbled and chaotic and you might be blinded by jealousy. All this makes it almost impossible to step back and to truly be objective to get THE TRUTH.
Don't try to figure this out by yourself.
The stakes are just too high.
Let us help you find that objective place within yourself where you can get to the truth.
It's Much Easier Than You Might Think To Get The Truth About Whether He's Lying or Cheating On You...
In order to find out if your man is lying or cheating on you, there are really only two things you need and those things are:
1. A Plan
2. Support in carrying out that plan
And the good news is we're going to give you both.
In fact, we're going to help you take the guesswork out of finding out whether he's lying or cheating on you.
We've taken everything we know about how to tell if a man is lying and cheating and put it in a one-of-a-kind program, written specifically for women, that gives you everything you need to know to finally be able to get to the truth once and for all.
We call this program...
Where There's Smoke There's Fire:
How To Tell If Your Man's a Cheating Liar
What Is "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" and
How Can It Help You Find Out If your Man Is Lying or Cheating?
This is a simple, step-by-step program where we take you by the hand and show you steps to tell if your man is lying or cheating on you.
This is a complete package of information that has been carefully chosen to give you the information and help you're going to need to start turning trust around and rebuilding your relationship right away.
The "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" program includes two downloadable books, two audio recordings and two special reports, all tightly focused on helping you get to the truth about your man and your relationship.
What's great about this program is that it is available in an instantly downloadable format. This means you get to download everything that comes with the program to your computer.
Because you're downloading everything, this also means you don't have to spend valuable time waiting on a package to come in the mail and it also means NO expensive shipping charges.
Because you aren't getting anything in the mail, you also don't have to worry about whether your man (or anyone else) finds out you're checking up on them.
Everything is 100% confidential.
Best of all, you can start learning these incredible secrets and strategies for being able to tell if your man is lying or cheating immediately after you let us know you want the program.
"Where There's Smoke There's Fire: How To Tell If Your Man's a Cheating Liar" is an instantly downloadable program that will give you the steps you need to get to the truth quickly and easily...
Here's what's included in the program...
"Where There's Smoke There's Fire" downloadable guidebook
The "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" guidebook takes you by the hand and shows you in step-by-step format how to tell if he's lying to you or cheating on you
"How To Spot A Liar" audios
Here, you're getting the digital audio recordings of a special one-time only (2-Hour) online seminar that we (Susie and Otto) did on how to tell if a man is lying or cheating on you. This info is bold and controversial.
"How To Spot A Liar" online seminar transcript
You're getting the written transcript of the audio recordings of the "How To Spot A Liar" online seminar mentioned above. This means, you can have the choice of either listening to the audios or reading the transcript to make sure you don't miss any important points.
"Inside The Cheating Man's Mind" downloadable ebook
In this ebook, we take you inside the cheating man's mind and give you nearly 100 stories from men who are either cheating now or have cheated at some point in the past.
In these stories, you'll hear from men in their own words--as they tell you exactly what they did behind their woman's back, how they did it and most importantly, how they got away with it.
Some of these real-life stories from cheating men are so real, raw, honest and provocative that they even surprised us.
The idea behind this book is simple...
If you know what other men are doing, you'll know what your man might be doing and what to look for in order to catch him when he's lying or cheating.
Where There's Smoke There's Fire:
How To Tell If Your Man's a Cheating Liar
Complete Program for...
Here's A Partial List Of Everything You're Going To Learn When You Get Your Copy of "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" ...
Why It's NEVER a good idea to accuse your man of lying or cheating until you know THIS
How to become like a human lie detector with him, his words and behavior (so you know whether he's lying or cheating or not)
How and when to trust your intuition about his lying and whether it's happening
The 10 most important things to look for that could mean he is lying, cheating or worse
How to know when or if you need to confront your man or if your fears are unfounded
Why you can't trust your emotions to tell you whether he or she is LYING or not and what to do to find out the truth instead
5 "healthy" ways to deal with anger and other emotions that ensure that your relationship challenges don't invade the other parts of your life in destructive ways
Specific words and phrases to use with your partner to help you uncover whether he's lying to you or not
How to stop your out-of-control jealous thoughts without letting him off the hook
Why having a calmer mind can actually help you catch him in his lies, even if he denies it
A step-by-step system for knowing if your man's a liar and a cheat so you can know for certain if you can trust him or not
How to gather the evidence to confront him with confidence and how to know when the right time is to present him with the evidence
How to use any suspicious emails you find to your advantage
Dozens of real life stories and examples from real people who caught their partners cheating red-handed and how they did it
The most important thing you should be asking yourself about your relationship as you go through this process of discovery and inquiry about what he's doing behind your back
The differences between how and why men and women lie and how knowing this information can help you accelerate the process of finding out once and for all whether he's lying to you or cheating on you
The biggest single reason why women put up with lies and how you can make the decision to stop it if you're knowingly putting up with lies or cheating
The 3 most important words you should be using to guide you in finding the truth about whether he's lying to you or cheating on you
The single best way to keep track of what you find out and where to keep the info so no one else finds it
How to recognize the difference between snooping as a way to gather evidence and it being an addiction that needs to be dealt with
The pros and cons of hiring a private investigator and how to know whether you should hire one to find the truth in your situation
The most important thing you'll have to decide if you find out that your man is indeed lying to you or cheating on you
What to do with all the fears that come up when you think about your life if what you suspect really is true
How to confront your husband if he has been lying to you about an affair that has been going on for years
What to do about the "other woman" if you do find out that there is one
The #1 thing you should do if there is a repeating pattern of lying and cheating
The best way to deal with your anger that comes up when you think he's being unfaithful to you
5 keys to getting control of emotions that are getting the best of you
How to recognize the "red-flags" in your relationship and which ones to really worry about that can do the most damage if allowed to go unchecked
Why you can't rely on "shifty-eyes" as a way to tell if he's lying to you or cheating and another thing you watch out for instead that's a much more accurate indicator of infidelity, lying or cheating
Subtle voice cues any woman can recognize (if you know what to listen for) that almost always give it away when he's lying to you
And much more...
How To Tell If This Program Is For You...
If you're sick and tired of all the games you think your man is playing and you want to find out the truth about whether he's lying or cheating on you--then this program is for you.
If you're ready to finally say "YES" to you instead of allowing yourself to be controlled and manipulated by fear, doubt and uncertainty then this program is definitely for you.
If you want help finding out if he's lying or cheating but want complete confidentially so that NO ONE will ever know what you're up to--then this program is for you because we respect your privacy and will NEVER reveal anything about you to anyone for any reason without your permission.
If you don't want to be "blind-sided" by the news of cheating, an affair or infidelity that you suspect may be going on--then this program is without a doubt for you.
If you want to make sure you're not embarrassed and humiliated because friends, family, co-workers and other people find out about his shenanigans before you do, then this program is one you must go through as quickly as possible.
If you want to get the answers you seek about him and your relationship quickly--then this program is something you're going to want to pick up right away... (this isn't typical of everyone we work with but--we've had coaching clients and seminar attendees get the incriminating evidence they needed to prove their man's indiscretions within hours of working with us or applying what we've shared in a session or seminar)
If you're a woman who wants a step-by-step plan for finding the truth and expert advice about how to move forward no matter what you find out, then this program will help you separate fact from fiction in no time flat.
On the other hand, if you aren't willing to face your fears and be willing to take a look at what your man truly is or isn't doing...
...if you are committed to staying in a lousy relationship where you're not honored, loved and treated with the respect you deserve then you should probably pass on this program, not bother with downloading it and go back to your life as is.
This program is for women who are willing to open themselves to the truth and want help from a trusted and well-respected resource to find out whether their man is lying or cheating on them.
What Makes This Program Different From Anything Else?
While it's absolutely true that much of what we share will also apply to men as well, the bulk of what we share is unique to the challenges that a woman faces when trying to figure out if her man is lying or cheating.
There are plenty of books or courses available for people who want to learn about cheating or infidelity but we created this program exclusively for Women who want to find out if a man is lying or cheating on them.
This is important because let's face it...
Women and men ARE different.
And we're not just talking about the obvious anatomical differences between them either.
Men and women are different in so many other ways as well. And these differences are never more evident than how men and women are in relationships.
One example that's proven by research is how men and women handle the knowledge that they are being cheated on.
As a generalization, although there certainly are exceptions, men tend to move on quicker if they've been cheated on and women tend to give their men more chances and want to stay in the relationship, no matter what. In other words, in some cases, women hang on to a relationship way too long.
Our course helps you, as a woman, know if he deserves any more chances and then create the right plan for you to move forward--no matter what you find out.
When you're talking about an issue that's as important as finding out whether a man is lying or cheating on you, you don't want a "cookie-cutter" approach that is for everyone.
You want guidance that isn't a universal solution.
You want help that's geared specifically for you as a woman and the issues and challenges you face as a woman in today's world.
Not only is this exclusively for women but it's also a...
A Step-By-Step Guide ...
This isn't just a book or an audio where we throw out a bunch of tips for catching a cheating spouse or lover and call it a book or course.
This is a complete step-by-step guide where we take you by the hand and lead you through the entire process of finding out the truth.
We help you with an action plan, right down to the "right words to say" for moving forward with your man and the information you find out about him and what he's truly up to.
We don't just stop there...
We also tell you the best ways to confront your man and tell him what you find out about what he's been up to.
When you finally come clean and tell him everything you've found out about him, there's a right way and a wrong way to share this information with him.
We tell you the right way to talk to him about what you've found out.
Then we give you our action plan jump-start.
This is where we share with how to know what your next move should be after you know the facts. As you can now see, this is a complete program.
This program gives you everything you need to get to the truth. Nothing is held back.
We Know You Want More...
If you've read this far then we know you're a woman who wants more from her relationship than you have right now.
We know that you're no longer willing to live with the doubt, fears, uncertainty, lies and sneaky behavior any longer.
We know that you're ready to get the truth.
We know that you are ready for honesty and to know once and for all whether a man is lying or cheating on you.
We've put together the most complete program we could ever hope to create.
This program gives you everything you need to know to be able to find out-- Is he lying or cheating on you or is he innocent?
Don't wait another minute.
We're here every step of the way to help you through this.
If you've had it with all the doubt, fear and uncertainty, take that first step right now.
Say "YES" to you and your life.
To get this program now at this incredibly low price, you must act now.
To order, just click the "Buy Now" download button below and download our complete "Where There's Smoke There's Fire" program now and start going through the information right away.
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How To Tell If Your Man's a Cheating Liar
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Our best to you,
Susie and Otto Collins
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“I have been working with Susie and Otto for a few years. I reach out to them when I feel that I am having jealous tendencies and control issues are adversely affecting my relationship with my wife. They are fantastic about helping me take the “blinders” off so that I can see my blind spots. They have a unique approach to helping me address old habits that are counter-productive to having a quality relationship with my wife. At the conclusion of each session, I am encouraged that quality relationships are not forced or controlled but rather happen freely and naturally. I highly recommend them.” Alan
"You two have really hit the nail on the head! I feel like you looked right into our relationship issues. Your insights and ideas are so clear and practical. I am excited to put them to use! Thank you!"
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Your info taught me to communicate more effectively with my mate in order to get the love and affection that I need and deserve instead of just walking away from the relationship. It also showed me what to look for and how to end the cycle of 'the dance' in a relationship--the pulling forward and negatively pulling backward in a relationship.
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to embark on this journey with you. I know that 'Stop Talking on Eggshells' will be a blessing to many."
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